Saturday, September 6, 2014

Failure

What’s really good people?

This is truly the best time of year for sports; SUPA Eagles AFCON qualifiers, NFL opening week, college football, English Premiership football and all of this for the next six months? Seriously? There can’t be anything better to do with your time every weekend.  So I read online that supporters that attend Saturday’s SUPA Eagles vs. Congo match in Calabar will be subjected to Ebola screenings before gaining entrance into the stadium to root on our national team. SMH. Don’t know what is worse the ignorance exhibited throughout out West Africa since the outbreak or the response to how to manage the spread and transmitting of it. Anyways baba god give us GOALS this weekend O. UP SUPA Eagles & UP NAIJA. Let’s Go!

(S/O) HBD to my pops IDIMU Keshi aka…”Mr. I’ve Been FLASHY b4 you were born”. Wishing you many more.

(S/O) To all of the viewers, followers & readers of the MY OMO NAIJA blogspot. Thank you for your continued support. Love iz Love! P
  
Ok people; let me get focused…

I got to catching up on some television recently and was watching the program Hard Nocks on HBO that chronicles the behind the scenes first take on running an NFL franchise, the dream of making an NFL roster and the pursuit of winning the championship. So during one of the episodes a position coach made a profound statement, “show me a man without a vice and I show you a psychopath or sociopath”. When I first heard it I was like wait a minute dude is right and wrong. Although I tend to agree with his statement both psychopaths and sociopaths share a common vice in which terrorizing and committing grueling acts of crime in their communities gives them the fulfillment similar to that of scoring the winning goal in a competitive sport.

This is why I love sports; there are so many life lessons one can take away from it when you choose to participate in an individual or team sport. By far the best part of it has got to be the crazy cast of characters and the relationships that you forge for a lifetime of memories. Playing sports I was told teaches you structure, discipline, commitment, sacrifice, etc… What they never tell you or will ever be able to prepare you for is what happens when your dreams get derailed and the real world comes calling. In the show Hard Knocks at the end of the series they show on camera what it looks like to fall short of your dreams and be rejected when another man’s opinion of you believes you simply are just not good enough.

Fortunately for me I got my rejection very early on in my teenage years so I got a head start on many of my peers. That rejection although very bitter to swallow and accept at the time became a true blessing in disguise. It forced me to focus and concentrate on my studies and helped me to recognize that a lifetime of success and achievement is far more rewarding than the short-term thrills and excitement of a life in my 20s.

Unfortunately, what that position coach failed to recognize in his statement about psychopaths and sociopaths is that many of the young people that will have their lifelong dreams and hopes dashed will now need to find a new vice or else will have 250lbs-300lbs plus men terrorizing others as they never got a head start in life until for many it was too late.

Keep Fighting 

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